THE STORY SCALE
THE STORY SCALE
In the Raw
Whoever came up with the phrase, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me” was a liar. A few years ago, my therapist introduced me to Brené Brown. (Yes, I [...]
Let’s Deregulate Child Care in Minnesota… Oh Wait We Already Partially Have
(This is a picture of my brother David and I, circa 1989 aka the good 'ole days, playing by an open body of water, with ducks nearby and probably duck poop on the ground... we're [...]
Challenge Accepted
Recently there has been a lot of straight up shenanigans going on and quite frankly it’s culminated in this lovely little literary gem. If you’re reading this and you’re offended, well congratulations and welcome to [...]
The Right to Be Equally Offended
Since this legislative session began in Minnesota, I have spent over 20 days at the Capitol. What began as a movement to expose the inconsistency, targeting, and straight up bullying by the Department of Human [...]
Dear Friend: An Open Letter to Advocate for Change to the VA System in America
Dear Friend, Today was hard. I struggle on days like today; wondering if I have a right to miss you… to be sad. Because it was me. I was the one who called the police. [...]
Field of Dreams
The thought entered my mind as soon as I clicked “publish” on the event. “What if no one comes?” I had just received the official email confirmation for our big event; The Joy Initiative: A [...]
Be Still
Sometimes I write things that I don’t ever publish. Tonight, was one of those nights. I sat here furiously typing things into a post entitled, “If We’re Being Honest”. Typing things out of frustration. Typing [...]
Begging to Be Ruth
It all went so perfectly. What I thought should happen: Step one. Graduate college. Step two. Get married at 22. Step three. Have 2 kids by the age of 28. Step four. Be a [...]
ABOUT BLOG – This blog is a journal of sorts; a journal of my journey. Many people know me as an Early Childhood Advocate, Owner/Director of a Nature Early Childhood Center, Consultant… yada yada yada. But those chapters are only a part of my story. Those are what people see and if I’m honest with myself, they’re part of my overachieving self that I’ve used to avoid things that are not always so easy or fun. But I’ve learned that it is what has happened along the way, even the paragraphs and chapters of my journey that aren’t perfect, or warm and fuzzy, that have taught me more than I could ever learn in a classroom. So, I’m retiring. I’m retiring from being an Overachiever… It’s a work in progress.
I’ve always firmly believed that we can all learn from each other’s journeys. I invite you to follow along on mine. I can’t promise it will always be “Well with my Soul”. There will be moments where “The Struggle is Real” and some that are just plain “Meh”. Because like it or not, we all have to feel “all of the feels”. My hope is that others will feel empowered to take the plunge and do the purposeful work of retiring themselves as an over-achiever. So here it is, my journey; my Confessions of an Ex-Overachiever… almost.
